Monday, July 28, 2008

Tale of a Turnip and Two Daycares


Your baby's skeleton is changing from soft cartilage to bone, and the umbilical cord — her lifeline to the placenta — is growing stronger and thicker. Your baby weighs 5 ounces now (about as much as a turnip), and she's around 5 inches long from head to bottom. She can move her joints, and her sweat glands are starting to develop. YAY! The baby is working up a sweat. We are trying not to or at least not sweat and worry over inconsequential stuff. I had a major (hormonally helped) melt down this weekend stressing about all the things going on in our lives but feel much better now...crying can be cathartic.

Some of you have been writing to ask about the daycare's that we were looking at, wanting more details so here you go: There don't seem to be a lot of places that offer infant care but we were looking specifically at something that would be easy for me to get the baby to on public transportation. Fruit and Flower is about five blocks from work (although not on the public transportation route so it would take a little bit of walking). It is very structured, very cute, with a impressive outdoor area for an urban school. The draw backs are that the waiting list is really long and it does not have a flexible schedule; you are either full time or 1/2 days. We went on a tour with with 4 other couples/individuals (very upper class, very professional yuppie...we felt a little out of place although it was amusing to watch one of the men try to figure out what Taylor was in terms of gender!) . We put ourselves on the wait list. The second daycare, St. James we thought would just be a back up. One of the embryologists and one of the physicians have their children there and really like it. We really ended up liking it a lot. We had a private tour and although it wasn't as pretty, it seemed to be a really loving environment with a great flexible schedule...and yes, we were very clear that no doctrine is taught it is just housed in the church. So we have a deposit down for a spot in April. We will just see what happens. St. James is on the streetcar line and it takes about 10 minutes for me to get there from work.

The thought of daycare just stresses me out too...what doesn't lately! But at least there are some options.

Also...we are still trying to think of name options that are gender neutral. We originally thought Greer (but given Taylor's difficulty saying it and that it rhymes with queer we got rid of it). We have Drew (after our fabulous friend Andy), Rowen, Avery, and Emerson on the list. In the last week we were talking about Grayson, Graden, Greeley, Emry, Embry...any thoughts?




Friday, July 25, 2008

Week of the Avocado


Get ready for a growth spurt. In the next few weeks, your baby will double his weight and add inches to his length . Right now, he's about the size of an avocado: 4 1/2 inches long (head to rump) and 3 1/2 ounces. His legs are much more developed, his head is more erect than it has been, and his eyes have moved closer to the front of his head. His ears are close to their final position, too.


We have been super busy touring day care centers...we are on the wait list for one and I think have a spot secured at the other...for April! It is insane. We also went to the lawyer again to fork over $1200 for the adoption of our own baby...yeah.
We are also major stressballs and have too many things going on. I am hoping to wrestle the computer away from Taylor this weekend and give a more comprehensive update...I know you are all dying to know about how I can't sneeze without wetting myself. :)


Love to all,


Megan

Monday, July 7, 2008

Lemons and Life


Hi all,


Quick update on where we are with life:


1. The nuchal translucency went well and the measurement of the nuchal fold is under 2 which we were assured was good. We are waiting for blood results this week.


2. We drove to Boise to see Mama, Papa, Leah, and David over 4th of July weekend and had a fabulous time...okay the visiting part was fabulous and not so much the road trip but that wasn't that bad either although I did frequent a lot of rest stops!


3. I am officially in the second trimester!!!!!!! I can't tell you how relieved that makes us. The baby is the size of a lemon and is producing bile and urine this week...yeah I was disgusted but excited too. Also it is working on making facial expressions (Papa pointed out that this is probably because it is peeing) and should be moving all around. I won't feel that for a little while yet but I am excited for it.


4. We have a prenatal appointment on Thursday and a tour of a daycare center on Friday (again, you have to get on the list now for care in April...how ridiculous is that?).


5. I am continuing to get my energy back and food is not so much an issue anymore as evidenced by the box of macaroni and cheese I ate for dinner. Hey, it was organic and I ate some veggies too!


Off to get ready for an early bedtime.


Much love,


Megan